Actually, two thoughts.
1) When we are trapped in a dark space (externally or internally) sometimes all we need is a small candle. Don’t underestimate the power of just a little bit of light. Even a tiny flame can grow bright enough for you to see clearly, and for you to change your situation.
2) The "feminist attitude/spirit" makes us popular with other females, yes, but unpopular with the males ... well, except for cheap sex, of which they take much delight. So for you girls who embrace this attitude, enjoy your fleeting glow. For you will never be seen as an eternal flame ... by either sex.
2) The "feminist attitude/spirit" makes us popular with other females, yes, but unpopular with the males ... well, except for cheap sex, of which they take much delight. So for you girls who embrace this attitude, enjoy your fleeting glow. For you will never be seen as an eternal flame ... by either sex.
I imagine this post will cost you a few "friends" ... LOL.
ReplyDeleteOh well :)
ReplyDeleteIts like they say Chivalry is dead and women killed it.
ReplyDeleteYes, Donnie, we did ... we ought to be ashamed.
ReplyDeleteyes we should!
ReplyDeleteDamn that BURNIN OF THE BRAS...
ReplyDeleteLike!
ReplyDeleteYou're my kind of woman ~mc~ ;)
ReplyDeleteCandle power rules, LOL! Best light in the world.
ReplyDeleteAnd as for the modern female attitude - that's what has made us stronger. And more able to carry our share of the load! And multi-task. And like ourselves more.
Me - I wouldn't change a thing.
We are all ONE.
ReplyDeleteIt's the governments fault..CIA funded Gloria Stinhem..they wanted women in the workforce to keep wages down for the corporations. I do not think I could go back to taking crap off of a man thanks anyway. I love men but like taking care of myself...
ReplyDeleteI don't think it's the feminists necessarily, I think it's the man-hating nazis claming to be feminists..quite a difference...
ReplyDeleteGod designed, Nature endows, and hormones energize females to both withhold and provide sex in order to promote their self-interest.
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Energizes females to gain advantage, which
Induces males to follow the female lead regarding sexual relations, which
Motivates men to do whatever females require for men to have frequent and convenient access to sex, which
Splatters smack dab on the feminists’ political platform that promotes masculine-style sexual freedom, which
Encourages women to duplicate male behavior and especially the sexual, which
Provides men with cheap and easy access to sex, which
Enables men to ignore female hopes and dreams, which
Encourages men to overlook womanly worth and pursue sex instead of a good woman or effective wife, which
Makes men select wives for sex and hope they possess good wifely traits, which
Informs women they can bypass promoting good wifely traits and provide sex in order to capture a boyfriend/husband, which
Prompts women to compete with each other for boyfriends, lovers, and husbands, which
Breeds distrust among females; makes them more insensitive, hard-hearted, and prone to be unhappy; which
Drives them to men for close friendships; which
Lowers female standards and expectations of men as husbands, which
Enables girls and new generations to outcompete older sister females and further lower standards and expectations for sexual access, which
Attracts men away from women their age and toward younger ones, which
Intensifies female drive to have a boyfriend/husband, which
Inspires women to copy masculine traits and techniques to elevate their status relative to men and outcompete sister females, which
Makes females less attractive to men for anything other than sex, which
Decreases the need for men to prove themselves worthy of women generally and one in particular, which
Relieves men of competing with men for female favor, which
Puts men in the role of competing directly with females for sex, which
Returns the ball to the females’ court and loops this endless process back to the top for further concentration of human behaviors around sex and against the best interests of women and children.
The cultural values surrounding cheap and easy sex thus grind female hopes and dreams into the ground of society.
Recourse seems to be for women to become more like men, follow them into the trenches of work and war, and fabricate hopes and dreams that compensate for bypassing primal female urges.
http://wwnh.wordpress.com/
But the above wasn't always so. Following the female nature, below, women were motivated to both withhold and provide sex in order to promote their self-interest.
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Energized females to gain advantage, which
Induced males to follow the female lead regarding sexual relations, which
Motivated men to do whatever females require for men to have frequent and convenient access to sex, which
Motivated women to live up to something bigger than their selves, usually God, husband, family, Judeo-Christian values, and moral uprightness, which
Empowered females to civilize boys, tame teens, and domesticate men for good husbanding and fathering, which
Encouraged women to rise above male behavior and especially the sexual, which
Taught women that fulfilling female hopes and dreams more closely aligned with marriage before sex than premarital sex, which
Denied men cheap and easy access to sex, which
Taught men that access to sex came from helping fulfill female hopes and dreams, which
Encouraged men to look beyond sexual attractiveness to perceive a woman’s full worth, to value her as person rather than sex target, which
Motivated men to bypass sex before marriage, which
Caused men to pursue for permanent capture a good woman and effective wife, which
Made men compete with men for women with good wifely traits, which
Taught women to promote good wifely traits and habits in order to capture a husband, which
Prompted women to value and expect a man’s devotion over and above her need for friendship, which
Motivated women to develop close and trustworthy female friends to compensate for marital friendship shortcomings, which
Bred trust among females; made them more sensitive, soft-hearted, and prone to be grateful and happy with each other, which
Elevated female standards and expectations of men in courtship and marriage, which
Inspired men to prove themselves respectful of women generally and worthy of one in particular, which
Put females in the driver’s seat for shaping cultural values (why people do what they do in society), which
Enabled girls and new generations to handle teen hormone hurricanes with wisdom learned at parental knees, which
Kept males more closely aligned mentally with women their age, which
Intensified manly commitment and devotion to wife, which
Inspired wives to prettify their selves and specialize in femininity, lady-like behavior, and traits and techniques that stabilize family and harmonize marriage, which
Made females more attractive to a man seeking to fulfill his masculine primal need for a place to flop, eat, throw his things, and prepare for tomorrow’s battles, which
Increased the need for men to prove themselves respectful of women generally and worthy of one in particular, which
Made men compete with men for female favor, which
Kept men from applying excessive pressure to bed a female, which
Returned the ball to the females’ court and loops this endless process back to the top for further concentration of human behaviors around fulfilling female hopes and dreams.
The cultural values surrounding courtship without sex thus prioritized female hopes and dreams to the top of society’s goals.
Women specialized in being less like men. They sent husbands to work to improve society according to cultural values established and upheld by wives.
Females of all ages used to rely on their female nature to overpower the primal urges of males.
But that was many years ago when women were women.
http://wwnh.wordpress.com/
Seems you've maybe found your soulmate in WWNH :/
ReplyDeleteWell, this thoughtful thread was an interesting adventure.
ReplyDeleteI am blessed to have not lost any friends over it ... for that means they are really my friends.
Quite a few of you made me laugh, and smile.
I understood where each and every one of you were coming from.
A dear friend removed her post, and I don't know why ... for it was wonderful.
Even though I embrace my old-fashioned ideals of femininity, and sex ... this subject will not be brought up again by me.
Fair enough, my beloved friends?
I love y'all.
(((hug)))
Well, it looks like I lost one friend over this ... and it was just a thought to ponder.
ReplyDeleteMakes me sad :(