Saturday, December 11, 2010

Thought of the Day

Actually, two thoughts.

1)  When we are trapped in a dark space (externally or internally) sometimes all we need is a small candle.  Don’t underestimate the power of just a little bit of light.   Even a tiny flame can grow bright enough for you to see clearly, and for you to change your situation.

2)  The "feminist attitude/spirit" makes us popular with other females, yes, but unpopular with the males ... well, except for cheap sex, of which they take much delight.  So for you girls who embrace this attitude, enjoy your fleeting glow.  For you will never be seen as an eternal flame ... by either sex.


17 comments:

  1. I imagine this post will cost you a few "friends" ... LOL.

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  2. Donnie E via FacebookDecember 11, 2010 at 5:18 PM

    Its like they say Chivalry is dead and women killed it.

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  3. Yes, Donnie, we did ... we ought to be ashamed.

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  4. Robert D'Lynn via FacebookDecember 11, 2010 at 5:20 PM

    Damn that BURNIN OF THE BRAS...

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  5. Amy, Mary, JD, Nancy, MargeryDecember 11, 2010 at 5:23 PM

    Like!

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  6. You're my kind of woman ~mc~ ;)

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  7. Candle power rules, LOL! Best light in the world.

    And as for the modern female attitude - that's what has made us stronger. And more able to carry our share of the load! And multi-task. And like ourselves more.

    Me - I wouldn't change a thing.

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  8. It's the governments fault..CIA funded Gloria Stinhem..they wanted women in the workforce to keep wages down for the corporations. I do not think I could go back to taking crap off of a man thanks anyway. I love men but like taking care of myself...

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  9. Caleb Straus via FacebookDecember 15, 2010 at 3:22 AM

    I don't think it's the feminists necessarily, I think it's the man-hating nazis claming to be feminists..quite a difference...

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  10. What Women Never HearDecember 15, 2010 at 4:25 AM

    God designed, Nature endows, and hormones energize females to both withhold and provide sex in order to promote their self-interest.

    It:

    Energizes females to gain advantage, which
    Induces males to follow the female lead regarding sexual relations, which

    Motivates men to do whatever females require for men to have frequent and convenient access to sex, which

    Splatters smack dab on the feminists’ political platform that promotes masculine-style sexual freedom, which

    Encourages women to duplicate male behavior and especially the sexual, which

    Provides men with cheap and easy access to sex, which

    Enables men to ignore female hopes and dreams, which

    Encourages men to overlook womanly worth and pursue sex instead of a good woman or effective wife, which

    Makes men select wives for sex and hope they possess good wifely traits, which

    Informs women they can bypass promoting good wifely traits and provide sex in order to capture a boyfriend/husband, which

    Prompts women to compete with each other for boyfriends, lovers, and husbands, which

    Breeds distrust among females; makes them more insensitive, hard-hearted, and prone to be unhappy; which

    Drives them to men for close friendships; which

    Lowers female standards and expectations of men as husbands, which

    Enables girls and new generations to outcompete older sister females and further lower standards and expectations for sexual access, which

    Attracts men away from women their age and toward younger ones, which

    Intensifies female drive to have a boyfriend/husband, which

    Inspires women to copy masculine traits and techniques to elevate their status relative to men and outcompete sister females, which

    Makes females less attractive to men for anything other than sex, which

    Decreases the need for men to prove themselves worthy of women generally and one in particular, which

    Relieves men of competing with men for female favor, which

    Puts men in the role of competing directly with females for sex, which

    Returns the ball to the females’ court and loops this endless process back to the top for further concentration of human behaviors around sex and against the best interests of women and children.

    The cultural values surrounding cheap and easy sex thus grind female hopes and dreams into the ground of society.

    Recourse seems to be for women to become more like men, follow them into the trenches of work and war, and fabricate hopes and dreams that compensate for bypassing primal female urges.

    http://wwnh.wordpress.com/

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  11. But the above wasn't always so. Following the female nature, below, women were motivated to both withhold and provide sex in order to promote their self-interest.

    It:

    Energized females to gain advantage, which
    Induced males to follow the female lead regarding sexual relations, which

    Motivated men to do whatever females require for men to have frequent and convenient access to sex, which

    Motivated women to live up to something bigger than their selves, usually God, husband, family, Judeo-Christian values, and moral uprightness, which

    Empowered females to civilize boys, tame teens, and domesticate men for good husbanding and fathering, which

    Encouraged women to rise above male behavior and especially the sexual, which

    Taught women that fulfilling female hopes and dreams more closely aligned with marriage before sex than premarital sex, which

    Denied men cheap and easy access to sex, which

    Taught men that access to sex came from helping fulfill female hopes and dreams, which

    Encouraged men to look beyond sexual attractiveness to perceive a woman’s full worth, to value her as person rather than sex target, which

    Motivated men to bypass sex before marriage, which

    Caused men to pursue for permanent capture a good woman and effective wife, which

    Made men compete with men for women with good wifely traits, which

    Taught women to promote good wifely traits and habits in order to capture a husband, which

    Prompted women to value and expect a man’s devotion over and above her need for friendship, which

    Motivated women to develop close and trustworthy female friends to compensate for marital friendship shortcomings, which

    Bred trust among females; made them more sensitive, soft-hearted, and prone to be grateful and happy with each other, which

    Elevated female standards and expectations of men in courtship and marriage, which

    Inspired men to prove themselves respectful of women generally and worthy of one in particular, which

    Put females in the driver’s seat for shaping cultural values (why people do what they do in society), which

    Enabled girls and new generations to handle teen hormone hurricanes with wisdom learned at parental knees, which

    Kept males more closely aligned mentally with women their age, which

    Intensified manly commitment and devotion to wife, which

    Inspired wives to prettify their selves and specialize in femininity, lady-like behavior, and traits and techniques that stabilize family and harmonize marriage, which

    Made females more attractive to a man seeking to fulfill his masculine primal need for a place to flop, eat, throw his things, and prepare for tomorrow’s battles, which

    Increased the need for men to prove themselves respectful of women generally and worthy of one in particular, which

    Made men compete with men for female favor, which

    Kept men from applying excessive pressure to bed a female, which

    Returned the ball to the females’ court and loops this endless process back to the top for further concentration of human behaviors around fulfilling female hopes and dreams.

    The cultural values surrounding courtship without sex thus prioritized female hopes and dreams to the top of society’s goals.

    Women specialized in being less like men. They sent husbands to work to improve society according to cultural values established and upheld by wives.

    Females of all ages used to rely on their female nature to overpower the primal urges of males.

    But that was many years ago when women were women.

    http://wwnh.wordpress.com/

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  12. Seems you've maybe found your soulmate in WWNH :/

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  13. Well, this thoughtful thread was an interesting adventure.

    I am blessed to have not lost any friends over it ... for that means they are really my friends.

    Quite a few of you made me laugh, and smile.

    I understood where each and every one of you were coming from.

    A dear friend removed her post, and I don't know why ... for it was wonderful.

    Even though I embrace my old-fashioned ideals of femininity, and sex ... this subject will not be brought up again by me.

    Fair enough, my beloved friends?

    I love y'all.

    (((hug)))

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  14. Well, it looks like I lost one friend over this ... and it was just a thought to ponder.

    Makes me sad :(

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